и иԇռеıܴڂ俼^(gu)ҪM(fi)^(gu)ĕr(sh)gcСҪͬW(xu)(li)и “R”ķ҂һ(li)!
1.
Ҫf(shu)ʲô“ ”“ٶ̫”!ÿһƪ һεЧh(yun)h(yun)~~vи }ģMֹÁ(li)x}Á(li) (x)Ǖ(hu)°빦!
ǰĜ(zhn)乤ܺ(jin)ΣöC(j)_һ(g)հęnȻͿԜ(zhn)\(yn)(dng)ĴXָ(dng)ȻϲgüP ҲȫԼ(x)T(li)^(gu) ĕr(sh)߀혱㾚IPֵٶȣ(du)(zhn)иϙC(j)ԇnjr(sh)ĴٶҲǷdzЎģ^һeɵÆ!
^(gu)̲һλ҂Ŀ(bio)ǰÿԒÿ(g)ֶ_،(li)Ҫ(f)
A. һɱ
ǧf(wn)Ҫһρ(li)ͼ(dng)Pļ һ ҂΄(w)ӛסеă(ni)Ǔ Ďׂ(g)~ӛ(li)Ҫу(ni) ^(gu)ץס(ni)ݴ⡣ˌ(du)Ԓ֮и زc(din)W(xu)g(sh)vCϿZ(y);CόеҲˣHHճô(jin)ԹӛסֻƬZ(y)DzģI(lng)(hu)ȫƪĴ߉Y(ji)(gu) ĵһ
B.
ڶҪ_ʼ һ(li)f(shu) һ䌑һ A(ch)^Ҳ߅ ߅(dng)Ȼ߅ ߅(du) ҪDZ^ߵ“ݔ”“ݔ”ͬr(sh)M(jn)пǷdz(zhn)Ե!(du)(sh)ͬW(xu)(li)f(shu)߀ǽh һͣ һ䡣 ߲_ĵطԵȥ (dng)Ȼʹõǜ(d)ҵ ƽ_(ti)߀ʹóNĵď(f)xŶ!
C. ˌ(du)ԭ
Kڰһ (li)䡢Xָc(din)ƣ˰?^(gu)҂΄(w)߀]ˌ(du)𰸵^(gu)ҲdzҪ!҂Ԍ(du)ԭütɫe(cu)ĵطҳԼc(din)——DZy?e(cu)`?߀dž~ƴ©?֮ﲻ(hu)a(b)(du)YˎP(gun)I!
D. ߀]нY(ji)Ŷ~
䌍(sh) CC߀Dz“ե”ϵһ֠I(yng)B(yng)IJT!S xģZ(y)Z(y){(dio)߀^m(x)ֲеZ(y)c(din)~RZ(y)֪R(sh)һNի@ø!
2. Pӛvs.X
ڿԇ^(gu)o(w)Փ }߀ǾC}е ֣^(gu)th(yun)ҪPӛ@λСѸP(gun)ϵ!P(gun)Ӗ(xn)Pӛķ䌍(sh)ܶܶ࣬ϜһѾCCͲ_!
^(gu)ڴҪѴeעPӛmãҲҪ^(gu)هŶ?yn)õ ߽^ڹPӛ!eO (active listening)õķ^“eO” (dng)Ⲣӛס Ϣ(g)Ϣc(din)֮gP(gun)ϵ÷^X(li) (x)һ̶Ⱥ߀A(y)y(c)漴 ă(ni)!@ӵ Դ^XӛϢ?yn)Ϣѽ?jng)һ߉[XˣҪӛPӛĵطҲ̓HһЩP(gun)I~~(sh)֮Pӛһ(yu)(sh)ڣ֮}r(sh)ھCϿZ(y)͌֜(zhn)f(shu)͌r(sh)ʡȥܶxPӛP(gun)ϵĕr(sh)gʡָЧŶ!
ǧf(wn)Ҫ(du)ԼXʧȥ!eO (x)һҲ˦Pӛ~
3.
ƽr(sh)҂ľ(x)o(w)Փ x߀ 䌍(sh)Ǿ һһ䶼Ҫ(li)м(x)о˾ ֮һķ ҲǺк̎ģԎڱ^ɵĠB(ti)“ĥ”(dng)Ȼ@(g)“”ָDz}ĿđB(ti)ϱ^pɣҲf(shu)ȫ^(gu)^(gu)́GǷN IJҲҪ҂eOȥ䌍(sh)f(shu)ú(jin)һc(din)eϾr(sh)J(rn) ЩӰҕҪ(x)־ֻǷN“ ” Ԏ҂Z(y)ڲ֪Xо͕(hu)(du)ӢZ(y)a(chn)HϤС@ӵDz֪XһΕr(sh)g(li)Ҳܿ@M(jn)Ŷ!
и “R”?F(xin)֪ˆ?ϣă(ni)܉?q)ҵČW(xu)(x)!